Archive for the 'Hall Of Self Improvement' Category

Strength and Sensibility: African American Wigs that Empower Strong Individuals

Friday, June 12th, 2009

As a girl, invisible lace wigs were not always my passion. Modeling was the thing that occupied my mind. That was true until last week when I lost my hair because of alopecia. I determined that I cannot sign off on the outcome of being a balding Lex Luther from New Hampshire.

Personally, this meant that I’d lost myself, bereaved of a real head of hair. This was a sign that that it would be more than difficult to recover great style. Man, was I wrong. Before I got my authentic wig, I attempted a wide array of hot phony hair weaves that made me uncomfortable. My husband Jim found me respectable, medical wig websites that carried invisible lace front wigs I could wear proudly.

So I got online and took a good look at their wigs. I happened upon a cornucopia of astonishing, high-class lace front wigs. Their tailored wigs for cancer patients made me so happy!

With the proper hair piece, a girl in my place may very well grow confidence while overcoming her hair loss. Never have I been so inspired to toss my freshest golden locks. It was glorious to proudly go about as I used to on the job.

It’s possible I’m being ridiculous carrying on like this, however hair is integral to who I am. Is there a deeper meaning to individuality than a great head of hair? Boy, it wouldn’t be right if someone told me otherwise. Wigs are stylish fashion pieces to so many women.

You couldn’t imagine what my loved ones have done for me. Only close friends and family know about me and women’s hair loss. Anyhow there you have it, I’m simply set to look fabulous for my husband again. Having hair again enhanced living for me and everyone who depends on me.

Judgmental people might say that life’s course superficial. They have no idea. What makes existence so practical? Speaking for myself, it’s kitchenware (haha!) and my inimitable style.

Love Your Hair,

Carrie Holton

Collecting Things when Young

Wednesday, April 15th, 2009

If you have ever watched cartoons and other kids television shows you will notice that there is a sequence that is followed. It is like one thing ads to the next and over time it builds. Collecting things in order and grouped together is something that kids often do. There are mini pony collections, and there is one main pony and then a whole lot that follow to make up the whole collection. There are also specific cards with either pictures or stickers that are collected to make up the whole. It is not that cool to just have one or two of these things, it is best to have the whole collection.

This is very positive and good for kids to participate in because it helps them finish things that they start. Later in life they can have jobs and tasks that require them to finish them to the end. If at a young age they are focusing on collecting the whole set and they work at it to accomplish it, then it will be much easier for them later in life to take on big projects and complete serious tasks. At the time it may be kind of silly to look at this cardboard card and wonder why there is such a desire to collect other cardboard cards with similar pictures or stickers, but do what you can to support this because the benefit later on will be worth it.

Eight Strategies to Become a Winner

Thursday, May 29th, 2008

Are You a Winner? What does it take to be a winner? Winning is really nothing more than an attitude. How is it that, although you are doing the exact same things as the next guy, the end results are not the same?

Let’s examine what ingredients make up a winning attitude. Whether you need to win a crucial athletic feat, shed a destructive habit, or accomplish financial security, you won’t miss if the following elements are utilized:

1. One day at a time

Whatever your goal is, do not get overwhelmed with the enormity of the task. Decide right at the outset to set attainable short-term goals as you go along. What can you accomplish today towards your long-term vision? Every day that brings results is an affirmation that you will be able to do the same tomorrow, and so on.

2. Stick-to-it-iveness

Keep on keeping on. Do not allow yourself to get discouraged and give up. You never know how close you are to the breakthrough. Your next move; the next day may be the one that will transform your destiny.

3. The right tools

Do you have the right tools for the job? If you want to win Olympic gold, do you have all the athletic abilities and training necessary? Do you want to become a network marketing success? Then you need to do your due diligence in studying the best marketing strategies, getting niche products, and consistently applying what you’ve learned. “Get rich quick” schemes come about only with hard work and consistent strategic effort!

4. Look forward; not back

The past is good only for learning what not to do, or applying the techniques developed to bring about success. It is of paramount importance, however, not to dwell on past failures and mistakes. The moment is Now. Go forward toward your dream.

5. Forgiveness

What does forgiveness have to do with winning? Get rid of all the bad feelings you have against those who have hurt you – whether deliberately or not. Past hurts will hold you back. Let go; move on and prove to yourself that you Can do it. Remember, though, you are proving Yourself; you’re doing it for You. Doing something in anger, resentment or retaliation of any kind will block your creative juices from flowing and rob you of the joyful satisfaction that accompanies success.

6. Gratitude

Develop a habit of thankfulness. Show gratitude to those who help you along the way. Take a few moments every now and then to reflect on all the good things you have, i.e. family, friends, education, affirming individuals, talents, etc. The bible states: “whatsoever things are true, .. honest, pure, lovely, and of good report… think on these things.” (Phil. 4:8)

7. Inspiration

Have a daily quiet time with God. The Lord says that if we delight ourselves in Him, He will give us the desires of our heart (psalm 37:4). The more you are attuned to Him, the more you will hear His voice and His leading in your everyday life. Whenever you get to a point where you think you cannot do it or go any further, remember and recite out loud this encouraging verse: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Phil. 4:13).

8. Expectancy

Once you have the vision as to which path to follow to success; then expect great results! Thank Him for your success – yes, before you can even see it. “Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” (Heb. 11:1). As well, the Bible tells us to make all our requests known to God. If He gave you the vision, the talent and the drive to follow your dream, then He will see you through! Write down your vision, paste it on the wall in front of you, and speak it out loud every chance you get. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God! (Rom. 10:17)

Now, go on, Just Do It! Prosper and Be in Health, even as your soul prospers. Yes, that’s also in the Bible. It’s God’s Will that you prosper in every way. (John 3:2).

Ann Stewart
Montreal, Canada
Author, With Wings as Eagles
http://www.lifealteringwords.com
ann@lifealteringwords.com

Ann’s passion is to help others live an abundant life in every way.